The Story Behind My Dove Pendant – An Heirloom of Quiet Rebellion

On the left is my Dove Pendant, originally made in 22ct gold with an 18ct gold chain. My father gave it to my mother on their wedding day in 1960.

It was designed by her brother, my uncle Kumar, as a modern interpretation of the traditional Tamil thali pendant worn by South Asian brides. As Catholics, the dove represented the Holy Spirit, a gentle but powerful symbol of blessing.

My mother requested something elegant, simple, and unshowy. The result was a quietly sacred piece with lasting meaning.

After my parents passed away, I kept it safely tucked away for many years. About seven years ago, I began wearing it again. It drew attention everywhere I went. Strangers and clients asked about it constantly. Eventually, I took a mould and now offer it in sterling silver or made-to-order in solid gold.

In our family, tradition was gently challenged. My grandfather ended the cruel custom of widows being stripped of jewellery and colour. He insisted my grandmother continue to wear gold and colour after he died and she did.

So when I wear this pendant, I wear quiet rebellion. I wear love. I wear legacy. I wear a piece of South Asian heritage reimagined.